The official start of summer is less than a month away, which means your friends are probably wondering if this is the year they finally get their perfect summer romance. And while finding that special someone to share beach days and 4th of July fireworks with is undeniably magical, there’s always the chance that love strikes your BFFs before you…meaning you might have to make some changes so you still have the best summer possible.

The following survival tips come from author Jenn Marie Thorne, who’s an expert on the subject: Her book The Inside of Out is the story of 16-year-old Daisy, who isn’t surprised when her best friend Hannah comes out to her the day before their junior year – but is surprised when she finds out that Hannah’s already in love with someone. Read on for Jenn’s 9 steps to surviving your best friend falling in love before you do!

Practice your 100% completely and totally supportive face.

Prepare to hear your BFF talk all about the new significant other…for hours…every day.

Search for things you have in common with your friend’s new love interest.

Brush up on your hilarious quips–you’ve just gone from the lead character to to the funny sidekick.

Insist on some one-on-one time, if your friend can tear herself away.

Make a list of Friday night awesome activities–for one.

Wallowing in your loneliness is sometimes weirdly fun!

Broaden your social circle–no one can replace your bestie, but new friends are everywhere.

And keep an open mind…your own plus one might be waiting just around the corner.

Looking for more advice? Start reading The Inside of Out by Jenn Marie Thorne!